I think the first thing to remember when “getting involved” is that this is a game – and importantly a game you can’t “win” by any clear method – ie: There is no amount of points to score to end the game and win.
To this end, weirdly, don’t be afraid to “lose” either – because you can’t really lose. You only actually “lose” if you don’t have fun – if you have fun doing stuff and die (often seen as ‘The’ lose) then you haven’t lost.
Anyway, going in with this mindset – I advise you do the following
. Have a clear idea of your character – Who are they, what excites then, what interests them? These things will help you work out what you want to do
. Roleplay – if you’re roleplaying your character as a ‘proper’ person in a fantasy setting, and not just you in fancy dress you’ll get lots more from the game and people will naturally include you more
. Be bold – throw yourself into things. If an interesting bit of plot happens near you, get involved, don’t be afraid to ask questions or if people would like help. Other, supportive RP’ers usually relish the chance to get others involved
. Ask for help from ‘veteran’ players – You’ll know who they are, they’re the ones getting shiz done normally, or pushing others to do it. Most vet players love to see new players doing stuff, it’s rewarding.
. Be awesome – do your best. Your best is all you can do. If you’re doing your best then you’re being awesome. No one is going to score your roleplay on a scorecard…they may offer advice here and there but that’s ok
. Be proactive – don’t just sit in your tent drinking beer (unless that’s your game, then that’s fine) but stuff will rarely come to you…the game needs you to come to it!
Feel free to ask me, IC or OC and I’m happy to offer advice/help or just some roleplay.